User blog comment:Juggernauter/Well i need advice/@comment-1367054-20100328002443

Well, the basic principle is just be friendly, any girls you know, be nice to them. In my experience, you just have to be friends with a girl, show her you can be nice, maybe crack some jokes (simple, making fun of your own outfit, or a playful joke about how your outfits match, etc can be good, they're icebreakers). In my experience once you're friends with the girl (at first just treat her like a guy friend, but leave out the "guy" stuff) to stay out of the friend zone, you crack some slightly sexual, but light jokes like "So yeah, we should totally hook up" but use a voice to show you're completely joking (like a "stoner" voice). You have to show the girl that you can be more than just a friend, and that she would be great with having you as more than just a friend. Basically be the best friend you can and make sure everyone sees it. Warning, keep yourself emotionally low-key because that's fucked my relationships in the past.